There aren’t many people around me who use baby carriers. In fact, I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve seen a baby carrier being used in a store – actually, I can count it on two fingers.
I’ve seen other people using carriers outside 3-4 times, but that’s it, and that was mostly at outdoor festivals, and once at the local zoo.
When my husband and I are out with our little girl in the carrier, at least one person usually comes up to me and comments on how cute the baby carrier is, how nice it must be to have, that they had one when their kids were young and they loved it, that they wished they had one when their kids were young, or that they know someone who’s having a baby, and they’d love to get one for them.
I’ve had so many people stop and ask me where I got my Mei Tai (I got it with a gift certificate that I won from Regarding Peanut) that I’ve thought I should start carrying their business cards around with me.
But, when I see a mother carrying her child in a carseat, they won’t look at me – in fact, I’ve even had some turn away when I smile at them (this was when we were attending a new church).
We don’t always use our baby carriers, and I certainly don’t judge people who aren’t carrying their babies – unless the babies are screaming/crying and obviously unhappy, and the parents refuse to get them out, but that’s only happened once.
LO gets hot easily, so if it’s too warm she’s usually in the stroller.
There’s also usually a lot of snow and ice on the ground in the winter, so we used the stroller all through the winter so we wouldn’t have to worry about slipping and falling with her – and trust me the year after giving birth I slipped and fell on the ice more than I ever have, so I’m very glad that she was in the stroller, and not where I could hurt her.
I think the wierdest reaction to wearing my daughter, was when someone told me that I was selfish, to keep her in the carrier. But she’s usually happier, and it makes my life easier, especially when she doesn’t want anyone else to hold her, so if they think I’m selfish then that is fine with me.
How do people react when you wear your baby?
Is it common in your area, or does everyone look at you like you’re kind of strange?
What did you think the first time you saw someone else wearing a baby or toddler?
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